Showing posts with label spiritual. Show all posts
Showing posts with label spiritual. Show all posts

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

What does it mean to be "spiritual but not religious"?


I have listened to Rob Bell's video on "Rediscovering Wonder" again, and somewhere in the middle of the video, he mentioned about people calling themselves spiritual but not religious. To him, spirituality is about having a childlike wonder, and being free to question, discover and explore (the mysteries of life) with a sense of awe and wonder, and being open to different ways of looking at things, whereas religion is about being dogmatic and fundamentalist. This view sits well with me.

On another note, it is perhaps no surprise that many people in the christian circles, such as evangelical preachers in general, choose to equate spirituality with Jesus because Jesus has been a central figure in christianity for so long (about 2,000 years or so) that people in mainstream christianity have all along assumed (including myself in the past) that he was a historical character - after all, the idea of Jesus coming to save, love, heal and comfort us and to set us free from religion is a comforting and compelling thought itself. It may explain why the recent video "Why I hate religion but love Jesus" is so popular among those in the christian circles.

To me, after coming to see the bible as a collection of myths and legends, I now see spirituality in a broader perspective - for example, native Amercian spirituality to me is considered spirituality, which revolves around the concept of our oneness with the Great Spirit and with Mother Earth and all living things. Music is spirituality too. I think anything that enables us to keep in touch with our soul can be considered spirituality.

In my recent blog "To be spiritual is to be amazed", I concluded:
"For me, I would say any belief that does not cause harm to oneself or others and instead produces the fruit of love, peace and unity is of the truth because the truth always sets us free."
 I have also read the article "Spiritual, But Not Religious", and I can relate especially to this observation.
"Forsaking formal religious organizations, these people have instead embraced an individualized spirituality that includes picking and choosing from a wide range of alternative religious philosophies. They typically view spirituality as a journey intimately linked with the pursuit of personal growth or development."
I agree spirituality is meant to be individualised, since everyone has a subjective view or opinion about God/Divine, which is influenced by a person's upbringing, culture, experiences and so on. Each person's experiences in life are unique, and it has been suggested by some inspirational sources that we all have our own unique spiritual DNA, so to speak.

I also believe we are already spiritual beings on a human journey, so there is no need for people to become more spiritual (in the sense of becoming more holy or moral or perfect, which itself is a form of legalism). The fact that we are moved by music, art, beauty and love is testimony that each of us is spiritual, and yet at the same time, we also need to connect with our humanity, in terms of our emotions.

I suppose the general idea I have at this point of my journey is that spirituality has to do with experiencing a sense of inner bliss that is unchanging, whereas humanity has to do with our emotions and thoughts (such as those of fears, worries, anger, disappointment, hurts as well as happiness, peace, elation, excitement, passion) that are fluctuating and everchanging - I would say both are equally necessary and normal and natural parts of our human existence. We all need to embrace both the spiritual and human sides of ourselves.

Sunday, July 29, 2012

The self-aggrandisement in Modern Christianity

What do we make of people in the Christian circles claiming that they are having a good time dying to self? How about those who publicise their good deeds?

I think they basically love to pat themselves on their shoulders and displaying their "spiritual attainment" in public. It is contrary to Jesus' sermon on the mount, in which he taught people not to let their left hand know when their right hand does some good deeds. I have been in the Christian religious circles in which I have seen such displays of performance. Not surprisingly, there were incidences of envy and jealousy among the people when they compared with one another who is "more spiritual". So, theologically, they may say god loves everyone the same and nothing they do can make god love them more or love them less, but in practice, there is a contradiction in what they believe and what they do, since they are still stuck in the performance rut, and in a sense, they are competing with one another to see who gets more favour from god. So, after all is said and done, it is really good to be out of this religious madness.

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Someone also asked this question: "What social improvements have Christians fought for in the last 300 years?"

I think "social conditionings" is probably more appropriate to describe modern christianity, which actually does more harm than good, as the predominant christian mindset is based on the illusion of separation, which only creates division and strife instead of unity and peace.

Even the so-called missionary outreaches are often carried out with an evangelical purpose to convert people to become "christians". True love has no agenda, and is done for the sake of the betterment of humanity without any conditions attached.

Jesus said to the Pharisees not to trumpet their good deeds in the marketplace, who love to receive greetings and praises from others. Why are christians not heeding Jesus' sermon on the mount and choosing to display their "good deeds" to the world instead? Could it be a case of self-righteousness and looking down on those who are not considered as part of Christianity, I wonder?

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Someone mentioned abolition of slavery, but the same Bible has been used by christians to enforce slavery on others. How is this considered as "social improvements"?

How is Christianity helping people when it imposes a dogmatic view of "christians" versus "non-christians"? Are we not all human beings regardless of our religion or belief system? Isn't christianity impairing relationships among people instead of repairing when it favours those who are "in", and discriminates or condemns those who are "out"?

So, instead of talking about "social improvements" that christians have "fought for", why not address the problem of christians "fighting" against one another and "others" because of differences in doctrines and theology and denominations, labelling each other as heretics just because they disagree on their different viewpoints?

The world will indeed be more peaceful and united if christianity (and any other religious system) is done away, when people help one another purely based on unconditional love, instead of a religious agenda to convert people or to instil fear and condemnation in people's heart for not subscribing to a particular doctrine or saying the "right" words or pronouncing the "right" name of a particular god or deity.